tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19717707781325566142024-02-07T01:38:29.191-06:00A Closer WalkDevotions from my heart ... via my keyboard!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07896024406579113109noreply@blogger.comBlogger227125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-63737709755684661812016-08-17T14:15:00.000-05:002016-08-17T14:15:02.138-05:00What Do They See When They Look At You?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Not to bore you with the minutiae of my day, but after breakfast I ventured out to run a few errands before meeting two of my favorite people for lunch. My mama's sisters Mary and Barbara (otherwise known as Aunt May and Aunt Bobbi) come to Dothan usually once a week, and if I'm not working, we meet somewhere for lunch. Today's choice was Express Family Restaurant (between Haven Drive and the Circle near SAMC), and we had a great lunch while talking and laughing the way we always do when we get together. Driving back home, my mind began to think about the past few days and stuck on a conversation I recently had with a patient.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I'm not sure how we even got on the subject, but I remember telling the patient something I had recently read, "Remember that you may be the only Jesus some people ever see." After agreeing, we determined that to be one reason to do your best to always be yourself, while letting others see Jesus in you. Please understand that I am in no way comparing myself to the goodness and perfection that is Jesus. What I understand that statement to mean, however, is that the way I live, the way I interact with others, and my very existence paints a picture. What picture am I painting? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Do I serve with understanding? Do I speak truth? Do I love others? Oh how many ways I feel that I fail Him daily. You know what? He loves me still. Jesus does not require perfection in His followers! How amazing is that? I'm broken, imperfect, and still struggling at times. <i>And that is okay. </i></span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i>"Though you may stumble, you will not fall, for the LORD upholds you with His hand."~Psalm 37:24</i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-52411458985378379542016-01-07T00:59:00.000-06:002016-01-07T00:59:47.060-06:00The Post That Almost Wasn't<span style="color: blue;"><i>Lying in bed, late at night, I listen to the rhythmic sound of my husband's breathing and wonder why peaceful sleep (or any sleep, for that matter) eludes me. The soothing voice of Tahmoh Penikett has failed me this night, for the sleep-inducing meditation did not. Words, phrases, voices, and thoughts fight for recognition in the echoing cavern of my wide-awake mind. In what is now the wee hours of the seventh day of this new year, I stumble over these words and realize that I have thus far made minimal contributions to my 2016.</i></span><br />
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I had the best of intentions for the new year. Surely I am not alone in dreaming dreams, making plans, and setting some type of expectations for myself at the end of every year. As 2015 drew to a close, I vowed to read and write more, to discipline myself to write each day - even if only a few words, to eat less and move more, to quiet the discomfort and embrace the joy. Why is it, then, that I feel like a failure less than a week into the year?<br />
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New Year - New You! Nope, not my idea, I read it somewhere, probably Facebook. I find myself spending far more time there than I should. What started initially as a way to "keep up with friends and family" has turned into a time-consuming black hole for many, a portable soap opera for some, and an almost infinite source of amusement for most. The reality of Facebook, <i>in my opinion,</i> is that it isn't. Reality, that is. What we see of posters lives is what they choose to capture and share. I fully confess my part in the 'perfectionism.' I post the finished product of a kitchen creation, carefully hiding the dirty dishes and spills that usually accompany said creation. Here's a confession: I don't always wash the dishes immediately. I restart the dryer (sometimes more than once) to de-wrinkle my clothes, and I rarely make my bed. Does that matter in the big picture and overall scheme of things? I'm not sure if it does or not, but it obviously bothers me enough to confess my shortcomings.<br />
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The worst thing? In three short paragraphs, I have completely managed to change the post I intended to write. The thoughts that kept me awake had nothing to do with Facebook. Struggling with my own perceived imperfections lead my thoughts down roads better traveled in full daylight. Instead of reviewing my fears and delving into the Word for comfort, I scroll through social media and check my email. Why?<br />
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Psalm 139 reminds me that I am God's creation, that He knew me before I was me. He <i>created me, </i>He is everywhere and always with me. I am not now, never have been, and never will be perfect. What I do have, however, is His unending love, patience, and care. Psalm 138:3, 7 explains this with great clarity, "On the day I called, you answered me; my strength of soul you increased ... Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the wrath of my enemies, and your right hand delivers me."(ESV)<br />
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What will 2016 bring to the Beadle household? Those answers have yet to be revealed. This much I do know with certainty - those answers won't be found on Facebook. I can only pray for guidance, seek understanding, and strive to follow God's plan, even if that requires me to step out on faith on a path not yet visible to my eyes. Will there be mistakes? Almost certainly. They won't be intentional, and I will certainly strive not to repeat them. Each journey begins with a single step, and this is mine.<br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;"><i>"The LORD will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of your hands."~PSALM 138:8<span style="font-size: xx-small;">ESV</span></i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-75146216725603723992015-10-29T16:24:00.001-05:002015-10-29T16:24:08.349-05:00I'm Happy For You ... <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>The title of this book caught my eye immediately, but it was the subtitles that drew me in. In this age of Pinterest and Facebook, we are continually bombarded with images displaying a perfection that seems to relentlessly poke holes in </i>our<i> "real" lives. </i></span><span style="color: blue; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>In our house, we rarely sit down to dinner together. Why? Work schedules and other time constraints. Typed out, however, they sound like pitiful excuses. After all, a family has to eat, do they not? Why not make time to eat together? </i></span><i style="color: blue; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">We leave the laundry in the dryer (and sometimes, in the washer), rarely make the bed, spend too much time online or involved in computer games, and we don't exercise. We are apparently not your typical Pinterest family!</i><br />
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The back cover of Kay Wills Wyma's 2015 book asks "Feeling weighed down by the pressure to be Pinteresting?" Eureka! That's it! The answer immediately came to mind. "Of course." For a while, I refused to even get on Pinterest. Snarky comments chased themselves around in my mind, comments that probably bear a remarkable similarity to those voiced (or not) by the Facebookers who have seen their connection place become overrun by oversharing grandparents and pre-teens. Remember when Pinterest required an invitation? Now, Pinterest chooses pins for you - based on previous things you've pinned.<br />
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Paragraph two on the back cover highlights society today: "our cultural obsession with comparison is undercutting relationships and sapping contentment." Isn't THAT the truth! Theodore Roosevelt reminds us that "comparison is the thief of joy." As I sit in front of my computer, stacked high with papers that I really should go through, I am reminded of the absolutely fantastic home of a friend - that has not one single item out of place. Not even in the office. Does that make my office less functional for me? Of course not. I glance down beside my desk and see my dog, half-snoozing while on his self-appointed mission of guard duty (I'm important to him). The empty glass at my right elbow reminds me that not only do I need more water, but that I have an ice maker AND hot and cold running water in my house.<br />
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The rain stays outside, for this roof has no leaks. The house is temperate, because we have a functioning heating and cooling system. There are areas of this country, this CITY even, where residents are not so lucky. How can I be so selfish as to complain - even if only in my own mind - about the life of another, when I have so much to be thankful for? Does that make me a bad person? No, I don't think so. It simply makes me human. Instead of focusing on what we have, we tend to focus on what is thrown in our faces, and we are sucked back into the never-ending treadmill of comparison.<br />
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Read this book. I think Wyma's take on things will open your eyes.<br />
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i><span class="text Phil-4-12" id="en-NIV-29455" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12px; line-height: 22px;"><b>"</b></span><span class="text Phil-4-12" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29455P" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29455P" title="See cross-reference P">P</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> whether living in plenty or in want.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29455Q" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29455Q" title="See cross-reference Q">Q</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Phil-4-13" id="en-NIV-29456" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">I can do all this through him who gives me strength."~Phillippians 4:12-13 NIV</span></i></span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-20329389535927989772015-06-24T16:52:00.002-05:002015-06-24T16:52:46.900-05:00Bringing Heaven to Earth<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Brandon Text', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span style="color: blue;"><i>Do you ever start reading a book in the middle, or near the end? While this is not the preferred method (for obvious reasons), there are occasions when it just happens that way. I picked up Josh Ross and Jonathan Storment's </i>Bringing Heaven to Earth<i>, and it fell open to chapter 13. Chapter 13 begins on page 169, pretty close to the end of the book. What struck me so strongly that I continued to read from this odd starting place was the chapter's title, </i>How to Lose the Fear of Failure. <i>How weird is that? This book began speaking to me from the time it fell open to that oh-so-fitting chapter.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Brandon Text', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Subtitled <i>Fears and Perfection Keep Us from Joining Jesus's Celebration,</i> this chapter begins by explaining the difference between phobias and pet peeves. Before you begin ticking off a list of your pet peeves, bear with me. Chew on this sentence for a moment: "Phobias interfere with life and cause deep personal distress" (Ross & Storment, p. 169).</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Brandon Text', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Why do we fear? The reason for fear is as varied as the number of people who fear. What I fear may be something different that what you fear, or it may be the same, for very different reasons. This is not intended to be a discourse on phobia, but rather an attempt to understand that aha! moment that comes when something is explained so clearly that it suddenly, amazingly, makes perfect sense. "Fear can paralyze decision making that would draw us deeper into the heart and mission of God. There is a reason the command 'Do not be afraid' shows up more than any other command in Scripture ... atychiphobia, a fear of failure" (p. 172). </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Brandon Text', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I fear failure. There have been times when I refused (and still do) to do something that I do not believe I can do well. If I can't be good at it, I don't want to play (hence the reason I never played team sports). Instead of stepping out on faith, I stepped back. Instead of stepping forward and sharing Jesus, I stepped back into my secure world. Have I denied Him by doing so? Another question that bears asking is "What have I denied me?" Please don't take that in the selfish context that it appears to read. I don't mean that I have missed personal gain, or glory, but rather the possibility of a connection, a shared growth, or the ability to reach out to someone who might need it. Does my fear keep me from living fully for Christ?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.~Psalm 139:23-24 NIV</span></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-43618522230798232212015-06-02T20:50:00.001-05:002015-06-02T20:50:47.875-05:00Be The Message Devotional<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2iEnioOcmrB-CAHKILOUOA6Von1BZN1ZiQd7u6AAardmuux7VUZ7fEafXtmvLa9Cv8Od22zhRwuSpakBquNemCxw2Qgt3rPw4qFR2NmEaiUoAjUKs2_zkJAmssIbTKiM6z_2EfsA0L7E/s1600/BeTheMessage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2iEnioOcmrB-CAHKILOUOA6Von1BZN1ZiQd7u6AAardmuux7VUZ7fEafXtmvLa9Cv8Od22zhRwuSpakBquNemCxw2Qgt3rPw4qFR2NmEaiUoAjUKs2_zkJAmssIbTKiM6z_2EfsA0L7E/s320/BeTheMessage.jpg" width="320" /></a><i><span style="color: blue;">The package containing Kerry and Chris Shook's Be The Message was waiting for me when I returned home from work one evening near the end of April. As I opened the book and began to read, I immediately thought that I would do what the book suggested, and take each devotion a day at a time. I didn't end up completing the book that way, but I will be going back and re-reading this book more than once.</span></i><br />
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Subtitled <i>A 30-Day Adventure in Changing the World Around You</i>, the back cover of this small volume asks a question that resonates - "How will God live out His message through you?"<br />
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As you read Day 1, you discover the intent of this devotional guide. Day one starts by<span style="background-color: white;"> OPENing - </span>yourself, God's word, and your mind. The words of John 5:39 are used as a reminder that memorizing scripture does not always equal <i>knowing and living </i>the life of which they speak.<br />
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This is an interactive devotional. Each day has space for you to contemplate the message, write down <i>in your own words</i> the message that you have received.<br />
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Day 3 spoke to me, really spoke to <i>me</i>. "If you are disappointed or troubled or just weary, God will meet you there. He sits with you in the silence. He whispers His love. Quiet your soul and hear His gentle breathing." (Shook, p. 10) How incredibly awesome is that? God meets me where I am! And stays with me!<br />
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I received a free copy of this book in return for my open and honest review.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-33393518486417927452015-04-23T00:03:00.001-05:002015-04-23T00:06:24.423-05:00FeelinBeautifulin5<div>
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A recent trip to the mailbox revealed a #VoxBox (package, actually) from Influenster and Freeman Beauty. Imagine my surprise when I opened the package to reveal not one but FIVE fabulous masks! My favorite so far (yes, I still have one to try) is the Charcoal & Black Sugar Polishing Mask. These masks are available at freemanbeauty.com for under $2 - definitely a great add on to your beauty collection for those 'pamper me' days!<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren is one of my all-time favorite books, so to read his comment on this book's cover </i>"Absolutely life-changing!"<i> definitely made me sit up and take notice. I have to say, Dave and Jon Ferguson's </i>Finding Your Way Back To God<i> is seriously worth the read, in my opinion.</i></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>I challenge each of you who feel as if your connection with God is not what you want it to be to take this journey with me! The Brothers Ferguson start the book with a bang, reminding us on page 1 that we are not alone, and putting forth a challenge on the very next page to "see if God responds." They then boldly ask "Do you dare?"</i></span><br />
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I am a child of God. When I was 9, I proclaimed my belief and was baptized. Forty-plus years later, I'm still struggling with my identity. Do I believe? Absolutely! Am I a child of the King? Of course! Do I hear that small, still voice? Sometimes. Or at least I <i>think </i>I do. I want to.<br />
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The five awakenings - longing, regret, help, love, and life - are part of what the Ferguson brothers call a pattern for the "journey in God's direction." Did you forget about God? Or do you feel God forgot about you? The authors say that more than 90 percent of us believe, but do not feel as if we belong. Sound familiar? It did to me!<br />
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Longing - "There's got to be more." While I don't necessarily believe that life is supposed to be perfect, I <i>do</i> believe that there is more to this life than I am currently experiencing. What am I missing? I think a closer relationship God is that something more, and I am seeking Him.<br />
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Regret - "I wish I could start over." Surely I'm not the only person in the world who thinks this! There are so many moments in my life that, even now, make me shake my head in disbelief at my sheer stupidity. In God, I am made new, and my sins forgiven if I but ask and believe. If that isn't starting over, I don't know what is!<br />
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Help, Love, and Life. My explanation for these three? He can, He does, and HE IS. Find your way back. I invite you to take the journey with me. Need a copy of the book? It's available most anywhere Christian books are sold. Let me know if you can't find it and I'll see what I can do about getting you one. This book has touched a chord deep within, and I feel it needs sharing.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>Daniel Ryan Day writes an eye-opener in his unassuming </i>Ten Days Without. <i>How much of what we have is simply taken for granted? Will anyone even notice if we do without 'necessities?' If they do notice, will they consider it just a publicity stunt or something to gain notoriety? I don't believe either of these was behind Day's adventures in discomfort (as he terms them). I believe he truly wanted to make a difference by showing how insulated we truly have become.</i></span><br />
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Ten Days Without was an adjustment, and one that made me realize just how much I don't even think about things in my life that so many would consider luxuries. As I grab my coat or slip on my shoes, I wonder if I could take on - and complete - such a challenge. I don't think so. I am a 'barefooter' by preference, but only within the comfort of my own home or yard. I won't even run an errand barefoot. Maybe that goes back to years of childhood and my mama not letting us 'go to town' or anywhere outside the yard without shoes. I applaud Day's perseverance and agree that our vision needs adjusting. Reading his book was humbling, and made me question what I can do.<br />
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I don't know that going without shoes or a coat for 10 days will make me more like Jesus, and I'm not necessarily sure that such a public statement is needed. If I live each day and my life reflects Jesus, will going without shoes make my statement louder? I don't think so. Was the book worth a read? Definitely. Did it open my eyes? It did. Will I take the same path? Doubtful.<br />
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<i>Honey. Granny. Mama. Ma. Mom. Elizabeth. Liz. Jorlyn. Mama went by many names, but she was never Betty or Beth. Granddaddy always called her Elizabeth. Her siblings usually called her Jorlyn. Coworkers called her Elizabeth or Liz. Her 15 favorite people, however, called her Mama, Ma, Honey and Granny. She was stubborn, outspoken, opinionated, and one of the most loving people I have ever known. The three of us were lucky enough to call her mama.</i></div>
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She was born just off Highway 2 in northern Jackson County, Florida, near Malone. The fourth child (second girl) of eight children born to Woodrow and Joyce Hall, Elizabeth Jorlyn Hall attended Central School, then Malone High School. Graduating in 1958, she headed to Virginia to stay with her oldest sister Jessie Fay for a while. At Fort Belvoir, Virginia, she met a young soldier from Ohio named Paul Abel. They married in January of 1960 and had three children - Paul, Jr., Denise, and Cheryl. Mama and Daddy moved around some, settling in Houston County in 1970 on what is now known as Plantation Drive.</div>
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Today, December 2, 2014, we let mama go. She is free, whole, and healthy. We love you and miss you!! We will see you again soon ... </div>
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<i>Dr. Barry Reisberg developed a staging system framework for Alzheimer's Disease. There are seven stages, although the first three to four stages may be undetected by not only those closest to the patient, but also to the medical professionals who provide their care. Stage 1 presents as no cognitive impairment, no memory issues. I don't understand how this is stage 1; why is there even a stage 1? Stages 2 and 3 seem remarkably similar, although stage 3 is still innocuous enough that some cannot detect the early symptoms of the disease, instead choosing to write them off as part of the normal aging process (alz.org, 2014). Stage 4 is where we found ourselves in January 2013. At this point, mama was still living alone, driving herself, and taking care of every aspect of her life ... or so we thought. Seemingly out of the blue, we receive a phone call telling us that mama had gotten lost on the way to Uncle Robert's house (a fact she vehemently denied) - before sunrise. The three of us come home, trying to find out what is going on with a round of doctor's appointments and testing. A geriatric neuropsychiatrist tells us she can no longer drive, and does not need to have any appliances that do not have an automatic shutoff. The Mini Mental Status Exam (MMSE) is quite the eye-opener.</i><br />
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Alzheimer's, like many other diseases, seems to have a mind of its own. While it is 'staged,' some sufferers do not go through all the stages. Each person's journey down this heartbreaking path is unique. Because I am a compulsive reader, I pore over available information, hoping against hope that there will be one bright spot in the grim forecast. There isn't.<br />
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Today's visit was not a good one. Although mama eventually called me by name, I am not certain that she knew who I was. I asked her if Paul had come to see her and she immediately responded "no" even though he was just there yesterday. I asked her if Michelle had come to see her and she said "yes, the other day, and Paul came the other day." We give each other progress reports after every visit, good or bad. And we recall good memories, and we laugh.<br />
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I started taking pictures as much as I could, of mama and of us, and of us with mama. I take pictures with the grandchildren, and with the great-grandchildren. Earlier this summer, Danielle and I were taking Samantha and Jonathan to see mama. We reminded Sam (she's 7) that Honey's brain was sick, and that Honey might not remember her name. Samantha's response? "That's okay, I'll tell it to her." We laughed.<br />
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Today, I cried. She sat in the chair in the dining area, feet swollen and bare, vacant stare looking through me. I said "Hey, mama" and she responded "Hey, mama." No recognition crossed her face. I sat beside her and took her hand. She told me she was okay. She took my hand in both of hers, turned it palm up, and traced every finger on my left hand with her forefinger. Did she do this when I was a baby? I did with my own children - and my grandchildren. And I cried. Not the big ugly nose running red faced cry (that came later), just silent, painful tears.<br />
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I remember driving down I-95 on the way home from North Carolina when we approach a state trooper. Mama always did have a lead foot, and she slowed down, sure she was about to get a ticket. When the trooper paid her no mind, she sped up and kept on heading home. And I laugh at the memory.<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-size: x-small;">alz.org. (2014) "Seven Stages of Alzheimer's." Retrieved from http://www.alz.org/alzheimers_disease_stages_of_alzheimers.asp?type=eNews_thankyou_page</span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-36685415508852937052014-07-19T13:38:00.000-05:002014-07-19T13:38:27.932-05:00The God-First Life<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;">Matthew 6:33</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;"> tells us "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." (</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;">NKJV</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;">) There are often as many ways to approach a problem as there are problems to approach. In seeking God, which approach is the right one to take? In this book, Stovall Weems reminds us that often, the best way to look at something is to strip away the extraneous and view what matters - in this case, living a life that puts God first. If we follow the instructions given in Matthew 6:33</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;"> - it is broken down into its most basic level. Seek first the kingdom of God!</span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRmVCP8M97zG6HOLV5OhvIx9mr6yG99IxosJRPr3F4TTyoyME6zLa6Umty0f_7__4weXFZCpYthFFD0Ae8GDYK3NxLft3RsX5T7vwWOwWGQROi-flf_0QsquXzVZb8uht25MEcL175Ob0/s1600/TGFL.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRmVCP8M97zG6HOLV5OhvIx9mr6yG99IxosJRPr3F4TTyoyME6zLa6Umty0f_7__4weXFZCpYthFFD0Ae8GDYK3NxLft3RsX5T7vwWOwWGQROi-flf_0QsquXzVZb8uht25MEcL175Ob0/s1600/TGFL.jpg" height="400" width="261" /></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;">Putting God first in your life does not mean, in my interpretation, to do so when you get around to doing so. If HE is at the front and center, all else will fall into place as it should. Put God first! He will work things out according to His plan. His plan for my life is different from His plan for your life, and that is okay because we are different, even though our ultimate goals may be very similar. Everyone has a different journey, even if their final destinations are the same. When the priority (God First) is established, the way becomes clearer.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;">Putting God first does not mean that the road will be always smooth, nor does it mean that every answer will immediately become clear. What it does mean is that you are not, nor will you be, alone in your travel. If you put God first, He will be your guide through rough spots, your calm in the storm, and your GPS with correct directions! The most complex can be made simple, by making your number one priority making God first.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;">A relatively quick read, filled with useful information and no platitudes. Read it. You won't regret it.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><i><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: x-small;">I received this book free from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 : Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.</span></i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-50032472899621250742014-04-11T23:51:00.001-05:002014-04-11T23:51:44.845-05:00The Storm Inside<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>The way we see ourselves and feel about ourselves is not always what others see in us. In this book, Sheila Walsh doesn't sugar coat feelings. She does not tell you that you should feel a certain way, and she does not tell you that life will be perfect just because you are a child of God. </i></span><i style="color: blue;">She is well aware that some days, you wonder why you even bothered to get out of bed. In the introduction, Sheila tells a story of a speaking engagement in 2012 that changed the way she thought. </i><br />
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Based upon an exercise used in her ministry that day, Sheila discovered that women - regardless of strength of faith - often let their feelings become burdens. The surprising discovery was that the feelings are the same, over and over.<br />
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Heartache. Disappointment. Fear. Bitterness. Unforgiveness. Anger. Regret. Abandonment. Shame. Insecurity.<br />
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Each chapter of this book deals with a different one of these ten feelings, and Sheila Walsh is indeed a storyteller. I found myself eagerly looking forward to her next story, her next sharing. I did not feel so much as if I were reading a book as if I felt that I was reading a letter from a friend. Explaining instead of chastising, she reminds us that some of these words are horribly misused in everyday conversation. The example she uses in Chapter One is of a football team's loss - often referred to as <i>heartbreaking</i>. Sad? Yes. Disappointing? Yes. Heartbreaking? I don't think so - it is, after all, only a game.<br />
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Sheila Walsh does not belittle these feelings like some authors that I have read, instead she empathizes and understands. Then, she turns the focus to the Master Healer. Reminding us that He is greater than ANY problem we might face, she gives us the words of Peter: "Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you" ~ 1 Peter 5:7.<br />
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I enjoyed this book, and would recommend it for anyone who has ever experienced any of the feelings listed above. Even if you are happy: READ THIS BOOK!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-73142558735178492762014-02-08T22:48:00.001-06:002014-02-08T22:48:04.624-06:00God's Word For Our World<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>I was so excited to see </i>The Modern Life Study Bible <i>as one of the books available for review! I had been searching for a new Bible for a while, and this one struck me as one with a different perspective than I was used to. First and foremost, I am a traditionalist. My first Bible was the King James Version (KJV), and for years, I did not stray far from it. Something about departing from the very formal and structured language felt wrong to me. Over the years, I had picked up and read, or tried to read, some other translations like The Message, and just couldn't do it. It didn't feel right. To my mind, at the time, it seemed almost disrespectful. This wasn't some paperback pulp fiction, this was </i>The Bible! <i>Gradually, I branched out to the New International Version (NIV), became comfortable with its verbiage and rhythm, and have stayed with that translation for more than ten years.</i></span><br />
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What you can't see from the cover image shown here are the banners at the top and bottom that very plainly state that this Bible is the New King James Version (NKJV). The NKJV is not a translation that I had read prior to receiving this Bible, so being the book-lover that I am, I dived right in!<br />
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The flyleaf introduction gave a hint that this Bible was not going to be just another study version. Calling it an "innovative, informative resource for modern believers" and reminding us that problems have been around as long as humans have been around - and the solution lies within God's word. Each book is prefaced with an introduction, setting the stage for what is to come. Genesis, for example, <i>God creates a good world. Genesis sets the stage for everything that follows by taking us back to the beginning - the very beginning - of everything. </i>As a reader familiar with the Bible, these introductions give me a different perspective. As a reader who may not be familiar with the Bible, these introductions would let me know what was in store!<br />
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Like some textbooks I have had, this Bible also has key events for each chapter outlined, focus articles that explain or highlight certain verses and how they relate to us today - such as your workstyle (Titus 2:9-11), and insight articles that give background on everything from brickmaking (Genesis 11:3) to the fall of cedar forests (Zechariah 11:1-3) to being rich in faith (James 2:5-6).<br />
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I expected a Bible. What I received was so much more. This Bible will be my companion for years to come, for there is much to learn, to read, to share, and to savor. Truly, a gift, indeed!<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>Blogging for Books sent me an email today, one of many that they have sent in the past months. I am ashamed to say that I read them and move on, for some reason not making the connection that I should. For whatever reason, today's message sent me to the website where I was reminded that I needed to post a review (imagine that), of an unassuming little book that has been sitting on the shelf in my office since last year. I removed the book from the shelf, looked at it, thought "Yes, I read that book. Why didn't I write the review?"</i></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>I opened the book, more to refresh myself than anything, before I started writing, and was almost immediately grabbed by a simple statement in the foreword. J.D. Greear writes "A great deal of damage is done by those who hold the truth of Christ with the spirit of Satan." I thought about that statement off and on all day. Pretty humbling, actually.</i></span><br />
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If I do nothing but sit around and complain, calling attention to the shortcomings of others without making an effort to be of service if I am able - where does the problem lie? I am not perfect, and neither is anyone else that I know. The only perfect person that has ever walked the face of the earth is Jesus. Who am I to judge?<br />
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Acknowledgements included, this little book is less than 90 pages. Just a few minutes reading for me. Until, that is, I start reading. Turning the pages for the second time, I read things differently that I did the last time that I read this book. Before chapter one begins, you are referred to 2 Timothy 2:23-25, "Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth." This made me laugh, and I am relatively certain that was not the original intent. However, when these verses were written, three things did not exist that are an inherent part of today's society: politics, football, and Facebook.<br />
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How can I compare these with those words? Easy. Take the events of the last few months (or years, or however long you choose to go back) into consideration. In most parts of the United States, and especially in the South, something <i>very important</i> happens. You guessed it - football season! Every year, and even more so with the immediacy of social networking, the trash talking commences. I'm guilty of it to some degree, as are most football fans. What I have come to realize, however, is something that some fans just cannot seem to comprehend - <i>it's just a game.</i> Yes, we want our team to win and we want the other team to lose, we want to be the best! Guess what, folks, it's still just a game. One team wins, and one team loses, and life goes on. Plays are brilliantly executed, plays are messed up. Calls are spot on, and sometimes we wonder if the officiants can see. <i>It's still just a game.</i> Next week, next month, next year ... will it matter who won? You may not remember who caught the winning TD or who made that amazing run, but odds are you will remember the hurtful and hateful comments, the snarky responses and the mean words.<br />
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If you think football season is bad, politics is much worse. Heaven forbid someone voice an opinion that another disagrees with - you'd think - well, after reading down a list of comments on a post of that type, and you wonder exactly who is thinking, if anyone. And no, I don't blame Facebook, or Twitter, or any other form of social media. I don't even blame the mainstream media. Why? Because it boils down to one simple thing. Choice. And that, my friend, is up to you and I.<br />
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We have the choice - to speak, or to remain silent. To stand our ground for what we believe, or to remain silent. To argue passionately, or to remain silent. To feed the controversy, to fan the flame, or to turn it off. To change the channel, to avoid the comment - or to avoid the negativity in commenting.<br />
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What I think Joshua Harris is telling us in his volume is that believers do not have to remain silent - but neither to we have to be belligerent. The old saying that you catch more flies with honey than vinegar holds more than a shred of truth. Continuing along those lines, however, the simple fact remains that avoiding conflict does not make your conviction stronger. We must remember this - "The message of Christian orthodoxy isn't that I'm right and someone else is wrong. It's that I am wrong and yet God is filled with grace. I am wrong, and yet God has made a way for me to be forgiven and accepted and loved for eternity."<br />
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Read this book. Small book, big message. Worth every word.<br />
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<i>This book was provided for review at no cost to me by WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group. I was not required to write a favorable review.</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-19360128367508958432013-12-30T23:54:00.002-06:002013-12-30T23:54:52.586-06:0031 Days to Happiness<br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i>What do you know about Solomon? From what I remember (not much, admittedly), he was considered to be wise and just. What I </i>didn't<i> know was what Dr. David Jeremiah hints at in his preface and introduction, and what he elaborates upon as the book develops. There is so much more to know about King Solomon ... "The wisest man on the face of the earth" - definitely able to teach us a thing or two, wouldn't you say?</i></span><br />
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This is the first of Pete Wilson's books that I have read, but it will not be the last. The subtitle of this book is <i>4 Choices That Will Change Your Life Forever</i>. I have read so many books that claim they will change you, change your life, change your mindset ... you know the drill. I am sure I am not the first to read with a "show me" attitude. Pete Wilson grabs you and pulls you in from the beginning. His four choices are simple, and for some, may be eye-opening. It certainly was for me.<br />
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Choice One: Choosing to Transform instead of Transfer. Think about it. If we don't truly make a change, we end up rehashing the same things. Over and over again. In terms of the past ... "your past is not your past if it's still impacting your present." No, it's not. If you do not change something, you will continue to have the same problem. Remember this: "God is bigger than your history and more concerned with your destiny."<br />
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Choice Two: Choosing to Be Okay with Not Being Okay. Does that sound like a big change from many so-called self-help books? Think about it ... sometimes, it is NOT going to be okay. No matter what you do, there are going to be times of self-doubt, worry, and maybe even fear. You are not alone in your struggle, remember that.<br />
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Choice Three: Choosing to Trust Rather than Please. I think this particular choice ties in rather well with choice two. Instead of killing yourself trying to be perfect to please anyone, everyone, or because you think it is what God wants from you, remember this: He knows all of you, and loves you just as you are. Can you step outside yourself for just a minute and trust Him with that knowledge? <i>He loves you just as you are.</i> Trusting in Him, even though you feel that you are not as "perfect" as you should be, is a big step. I don't have to try and please God by becoming perfect, He loves me and all my imperfections. He accepts me as I am. <br />
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Choice Four: Choosing to Free People Rather than Hurt Them. This was a big step for me. I mentioned earlier about the past. There are parts of my past that I replay in my head, far more often than I should. Wondering why I did what I did, and why I can't simply forget about it and move on. Why? Because I have not yet let go. Reading through the first part of choice four, a chapter titled <i>Breathe Grace, </i>I was floored by a few simple words. We know we should forgive and move on. Do we? Not always. When we forgive, however, we are saying that we recognize that there was a wrong, and we are choosing to move past it. "My understanding of God's forgiving me despite me enables me to forgive others despite others." Make sense? It will ... The next sentence clarifies it. The bold, italic emphasis is my own - that is how much it affected me. <b><i>"And while this act of forgiveness may not erase your past hurt, it does erase the power it has over you. It allows your past to truly become just that - your past."</i> </b>You are not going to miraculously transform your past into perfection, the scars of past pain are not going to go away. They will, however, begin to heal. And that, my friends, is the true power of forgiveness. <br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>Who can resist a book with a subtitle that offers Hope and Help? I couldn't, and that is why I chose to review Max Lucado's </i>You'll Get Through This<i>. I have been a fan of Max Lucado's work for many years - he has a way of cutting through the fluff and getting straight to the point - and I like that. When I am having a hard time, when I am feeling down or distressed, I do not want platitudes. Life IS rough sometimes, and no amount of sugar-coating will change that.</i></span><br />
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"You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naive. But don't despair either. With God's help, you'll get through this" (p. 3). Simplistic, right? Mouthing platitudes? No. Sometimes in life, we are going to hurt. Sometimes that pain will last far longer than we thought it would, and longer than we think we are equipped to handle. Remember this, please, when you want to give in - God is bigger than any problems we might have. ANY problems.<br />
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As Paul states in Second Corinthians, "Our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all" (2 Cor. 4:17 NIV). What is pain compared to the eternity that awaits us? I am not saying that living with pain is fun. I am saying that living with pain <i>knowing that there are far better days ahead </i>might not be optimal, but it can be tolerable.<br />
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Wound throughout this book, Max tells the story of Joseph. You remember Joseph, from Sunday School? The one with the cool multicolor coat? The one whose brothers hated him so much that they threw him in a pit and left him to die? He showed them, didn't he?? Rescued and eventually in a position of power, he didn't shun his brothers when they came in need. He offered love - after he threw them in prison, made them sweat a little. <i>He got through it. </i>And so can you. Remember, <i>"your history doesn't have to be your future" </i>(p. 105).<br />
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His chapter on depression was quite the eye-opener. Certainly I am not the only person who was brought up with the idea that depression is "all in your head" -- one did not discuss things of that sort. You just took a deep breath, and went on about your business, without letting anyone know if there were problems. <br />
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Unlike many authors of the "self-help" genre, Jeff Schreve does not claim to have all the answers. He offers humor, Biblical principles and Bible verses entwined with real-life examples to drive his points home in a most effective way. Before I had gotten through the first chapter, the highlighter was out and the pages were folded down as a reminder of a point that I wanted to revisit.<br />
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Will <i>Runaway Emotions </i>have the answers that you seek? Only you can answer that question. For this reader in particular, Jeff Schreve has hit a home run.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><i>I received a short text message from my brother yesterday while I was at the gym. It literally stopped me in my tracks, and it consisted of only four words: "house in realtor's hands." This was the final step in a journey that began in January of this year and took a definitive turn in May. Our decisions were not made lightly, nor were they made without many hours of thought and tearful discussion. What it boils down to in the end, however, is one simple fact: it still hurts. </i></span><br />
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Dementia is a viciously ugly disease. It knows no restrictions and can affect anyone. There is no known cure. A year ago, I would have nodded my head in sympathy, while quietly giving thanks that it wasn't me and mine. Seven months ago, it became mine. Not that we didn't suspect, or sometimes have that feeling that something just wasn't right ... but to have those thoughts and feelings confirmed is still a hateful blow. The questions began. The self-doubt began, and still, to some extent, continues. <i>"Did we do the right thing?"</i><br />
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As I pulled into the parking lot at the nursing home, she turned and looked at me and stated "I'm not going here." When I put my truck in park, she crossed her arms reminiscent of Samantha and stated "I'm not getting out. You can't make me." I unbuckled her seat belt. She buckled it back. Strangely, that was the first time in months that she had fastened a seat belt without difficulty. "I'm not going." I don't know what my face looked like, but apparently there was this pleading "Help Me!" written across it. My brother opened the passenger door, and when she turned to tell him she wasn't getting out, he simply looked at her and said "Come on, mama." I unbuckled her seat belt and she slowly got out of the vehicle, walking beside him. My sister and I fell into step, our pace speaking volumes about the heartbreaking decision we had made.<br />
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When we got inside, one of the aides from the unit came down the hall and put her arm around mama. She began making conversation with her, and gently led her down the hall. We watched, and wondered. Paperwork, conversation, paperwork, questions. Then you walk away, hoping against hope that you have not made a mistake. Logically, you know you haven't. Emotionally, you feel like a traitor. You feel as if you have abandoned the one person who would never abandon you.<br />
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Emptying the house was a lengthy, painful process. What to keep? What to do with what you don't keep? There were many, many items found that made us stop, look at each other and say "Huh?" Memories unfolded, time and time again. The realization that she is never again going to come home, never again going to live in this house is overwhelming. How do you say goodbye?<br />
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I'm going home in a couple of weeks. I haven't decided whether or not I will drive by the house. I don't know how I"ll handle it. Where will we sit around the table and drink coffee at all hours of the day or night? Where will we all get together and visit? Will we even get together and visit anymore? How do I explain it to my granddaughter when I don't feel like I fully comprehend it myself? I"m almost 50 years old. I have my own home, have children and grandchildren of my own. But mama's house isn't mama's house anymore.<br />
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Lord, I ask for strength and peace. For all of us. We are fond of saying that "we have two choices: laugh or cry. We choose to laugh." Please, help us to find the laughter.<br />
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The description of this book sounded like something that would intrigue me. Working my way through my own rediscovery of my faith, the book seemed to be one that might offer new insights and guidance. I did not find that to be necessarily so. While I enjoy Tyler Blanski's conversational style of writing, and some of his examples, overall I just felt that the book fell short of <i>my expectations</i> of it.<br />
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"Nothing ruins a good party like a story about a miracle" (Blanski, 2012). Blanski pops you upfront with this statement, making you pause and wonder what exactly he will be sharing over the next 200+ pages. Think about those words: how many times, especially in today's world, does a mere mention of God, or Christianity, or beliefs, or miracles cause raised eyebrows and shaking of heads. Those raised to be polite might not voice the disbelief that shines blatantly through their eyes, but it is oh-so-obviously there. Miracles? Talking donkeys? Did you miss your psych appointment that I didn't know you had but obviously need?<br />
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Blanski explains the reasoning behind his quest: the biblical story of Balaam and his ass, realizing that "I had never taken that story seriously. In fact, I had never taken most of the Bible that seriously" (Blanski, 2012) [If you are unfamiliar with the story, it is in the book of Numbers] Relatable! Definitely, because I remember vague bible stories from youth, believing with the innocence of a child. As I grew older, some of the belief turned to skepticism, but never doubt. I was searching for an answer in <i>When Donkeys Talk</i>, an answer that I did not find.<br />
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I did, however, take away several bits of information from this book. One that resounded quite loudly was the quote Blanski included from Dietrich Bonhoeffer. "We are to find God in what we know, not in what we don't know" (Blanski, 2012) Think about that for a moment. <i>Find God in what you know. </i>True? I think it is. When I look around at my life - the blessings that I have received, and the struggles that I have had, the one constant is my faith. My belief that God is, and that He is powerful enough to do <i>anything.</i><br />
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Dive into the not-so-typical book called <i>When Donkeys Talk</i>. While it was not one of my particular favorites, Tyler Blanski does share information to make you think. To make you want to start (or continue, as the case may be) your own quest to rediscover.<br />
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Blanski, T. (2012). <i>When donkeys talk: A quest to rediscover the mystery and wonder of Christianity. </i>Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.<br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;"><i>But Balaam answered them: "Even if Balak gave me all the silver and gold in his palace, I could not do anything great or small to go beyond the command of the Lord my God."~Numbers 22:18 NIV</i></span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Today, the reflection came from Ephesians 4, and the verse resonated within me. Strangely enough, a teammate and myself had been having a similar conversation before the meeting even started! Ephesians 4:29 says "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." (NIV) My translation? Watch what you say, make sure it is positive. If you have to say something negative, make sure it is understood that the negativity is directed toward the <em>action</em> and not the <em>person</em>. </span><br />
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Why did I need to say that I had a meeting today? First, I am in a period of transition. Last week, I was blessed to be offered an opportunity to change positions at my current facility. The new job is going to allow me the chance to learn and grow in a new field, and is giving me a work environment unlike any I have had recently. For the first time in longer than I care to think about, I can honestly say that I like <em>everyone</em> that I work with. The atmosphere is vibrant, and thrumming with excitement. There are changes ahead that we as a team will be instrumental in implementing -- and <em>I can't wait!</em> I am so excited to be a part of it!!<br />
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I am grateful, happy, and at peace. I feel like this is the beginning of a new phase of my life - and I plan to embrace it wholeheartedly. Today reinforced to me what I have felt since the beginning of my employment here - this is where I am meant to be. Lord, please guide my footsteps along the path that glorifies you. Help me every day to show your love. <br />
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<em><span style="color: purple;">"It is the LORD your God you must follow, and him you must revere. Keep his commands and obey him; serve him and hold fast to him." ~ Deuteronomy 13:4 <span style="font-size: xx-small;">NIV</span></span></em>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-16699183692917121232013-03-30T15:13:00.000-05:002013-03-30T15:24:34.611-05:00gods at war<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT_yp7yyeVmIpkcQJLxtBTa0IFKCYcT1pBbpQSmNbzn0jNbGUZOOkv4kcfpQKkbpfL5CdEzjzvvpohkw-hJqjfggBtAxEHOPRbeWeT__MtQ4WjaadRzDkLU7ZwOy2MiqocctmAC3YOdw0/s1600/godsatwar.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT_yp7yyeVmIpkcQJLxtBTa0IFKCYcT1pBbpQSmNbzn0jNbGUZOOkv4kcfpQKkbpfL5CdEzjzvvpohkw-hJqjfggBtAxEHOPRbeWeT__MtQ4WjaadRzDkLU7ZwOy2MiqocctmAC3YOdw0/s1600/godsatwar.jpg" /></a><span style="color: blue;"><em></em></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><em>A few short days ago, I received an unassuming package in my mailbox. Opening it to reveal Kyle Idleman's newest book Gods at War. And so the journey began ... </em></span><br />
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Not having read Idleman's previous book, <em>not a fan,</em> I was not sure what to expect. His introduction immediately reveals that this book will be a more personal experience. Recounting a "teachable moment" with his 8 year old daughter brings a shocking realization: idols are not the graven images of a dusty past, but present today in forms that are far more insidious and threatening. After all, who gives a second thought to many of the things that we take for granted? Have you considered that the importance you place on things (status, money, possessions, etc) thrusts them firmly into the place of something that you worship (idol)?<br />
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"The deadliest war is the one most of us never realize is being fought." How true those few words - and all before I had completed the introduction. Moving forward, Idleman blasts you with another seemingly simplistic view that brings his point home: "Goals can become gods. You start to serve them, live for them, and sacrifice for them." Sound familiar? Just a few more hours at work and we are sure to nail down that promotion/new position/recognition. It's okay if we have to miss a game/competition/family outing/church ... we can make it up tomorrow/next week/next year. Remember Mt. Sinai and the calf? <em>"Anything at all can become an idol when it becomes a substitute for God in our lives." </em>(emphasis mine) Proverbs 27:19 reminds us that "As water reflects the face, so one's life reflects the heart." (NIV). What does your life say about where your heart lies?<br />
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Pastor Idleman breaks down his book into four parts, detailing the gods that can detract us from focusing on the one true God. From the temple of pleasure (food, sex, entertainment), to the temple of power (success, money, achievement), to the temple of love (romance, family, me), the author gives an eye-opening view of how easy it can be to turn away from what is real to begin a never-ending journey for thethingthatisbetterandjustaroundthecorner. "The battlefield of the gods is your heart. Your heart is shaped by your thoughts ... be careful how you think, because that's what you will worship." <br />
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This book did what I expect any good book to do: it made me think. It drove me to ask myself some questions, and I didn't always like the answers. What <em>is</em> most important? Is God the most important thing in my life? Am I living like He is the most important, or am I just paying lip service? Am I talking the talk without walking the walk? <br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;"><em>"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."~Proverbs 4:23 NIV</em></span><br />
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Advertising.”</em>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-17000076603076326222013-03-04T01:52:00.003-06:002013-03-04T01:52:55.698-06:001000 Days: The Ministry of Christ<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhssyWhKiLZNwdatUOG5y7AfS41paYngU-pels-Zgnxwy1YjgSsFPPl4NjmYyUwPNhSYgnCuRMhD1mlYsoLMdvgUpjSzEebWihW91kuIb5M-QO1-7LJSk8AHq-IlROjMlaa7ARqMp7TyE8/s1600/1000days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhssyWhKiLZNwdatUOG5y7AfS41paYngU-pels-Zgnxwy1YjgSsFPPl4NjmYyUwPNhSYgnCuRMhD1mlYsoLMdvgUpjSzEebWihW91kuIb5M-QO1-7LJSk8AHq-IlROjMlaa7ARqMp7TyE8/s320/1000days.jpg" width="211" /></a>When choosing a book for review, I seek out a title that grabs my
attention - something that makes me think, or makes me want to learn
more. This is the first Jonathan Falwell book that I have read, and I
will admit to being slightly disappointed. I was expecting the book to
be a deeper study of Christ's ministry; instead, what I found was more
questions than answers. I do believe that the book would be great for
group study, the questions at the end of each chapter are designed to
make you think about changes that could bring you to a closer walk with
Jesus.<br /><br />Several thought-provoking moments occurred while I was
reading this book. I most appreciated the reminder of 1 Samuel 16:7 "Do
not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have
refused him. For the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the
outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." I agree with this
statement, and feel that it is an important reminder in the world of
today where so much focus is put on one's outer self.<br /><br />I think
that Falwell brings up some good points, although I disagree with his
interpretation at times. As many reviewers before me have noted, if you
want to know Jesus, read the Bible. If you are looking for an indepth
study of Christ's ministry, this is not the book you are looking for. I
gave the book a 3 star rating because I felt there were several points
that applied to my own life, and I felt that the book made me take a
deeper look at my own following of Christ's footsteps.<br /><br />Disclosure
of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher
through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not
required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-27587221389684317482013-01-01T13:41:00.001-06:002013-01-01T13:41:57.518-06:00Happy New Year!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Can you believe it is 2013? It seems a bit strange to me, but I have yet to actually <i>write</i> the date. What type of resolutions have you set for this new year? Each year, I go through the motions of setting resolutions and while I follow some longer than I do others ... well, you know how that goes. Last year, I was blessed to become part of a group on Facebook that read through the Bible. Did I complete the year's worth of readings? No, I didn't. I followed the group progress, however, and stayed in touch with a few members of the group throughout the year. I am disappointed in myself with failing to complete the reading along with the group, but today begins a new year.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;">My husband and I discussed plans for this new year this morning. What are we going to do? Will we do anything differently than we have in the past? What changes do we want to make? As in years past, I am determined to eat healthier. Do I want to lose weight? Of course I do. Am I making weight loss my goal? Not particularly. This year, I want to focus more on putting healthier food into my body, and learning portion control. I don't plan to focus as much on the numbers, but instead to focus on the process. In keeping with that train of thought, this morning on my trip to Walmart I tried to choose snack items wisely. Knowing that I am by nature a snacker, I portioned the snacks on my return home. Instead of grabbing the box of Cheezits, I can now grab a bag that holds a <i>single serving</i>. It will not be easy, nor will I always be successful. My intention today? To take it one day at a time. Every day, I will make a concentrated effort to eat healthier. I don't know how it will work, but if I try, I will at least know what needs improvement.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;">I told Rob that I planned to read through the Bible this year, and asked him if he wanted to read with me. To my surprise, he said yes! I asked him where he wanted to start, and he said "At the beginning! Genesis!" Both of us puttered around a bit more, then he stated that he was going to bed. I looked at him and said "We didn't read yet." I then asked him if he wanted to read aloud. He agreed, and we read the first two chapters of Genesis. </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;">There is more to Genesis, however, than just words on a page. The first two chapters of Genesis deal with creation. Talk about an area of controversy for some! I believe in creation. I believe that God made the heavens and the earth, and all the living creatures - man included. I believe that God made apes and God made man and that we did not develop from the apes. There are many who disagree, and I respect their right to do so. </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;">Our reading this morning generated a discussion that lasted three times as long as the reading itself. And that, I believe, is what a good reading is all about. </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;">Almighty God, we cherish you and trust in you to provide. Work within us to give us strength, and to draw us even closer. May we live each day as you would have us do, and may we remember that we are your creation.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #20124d;"><i>"This is the account of the heavens and the earth when they were created, when the Lord God made the earth and the heavens." ~ Genesis 2:4 <span style="font-size: xx-small;">NIV</span></i></span> </span></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08824998425628411403noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1971770778132556614.post-13654091044550761322012-11-23T14:39:00.001-06:002012-11-23T14:39:24.602-06:00What Am I Here For?<a href="http://www.booksneeze.com/art/_240_360_Book.729.cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://www.booksneeze.com/art/_240_360_Book.729.cover.jpg" width="207" /></a>Ten years ago, Rick Warren had millions of people searching for the answer to that question in his amazing book <em>The Purpose Driven Life</em>. Touted by Publishers Weekly as the "bestselling non-fiction hardback in history", Zondervan has released an expanded edition of this explosive book in celebration of its anniversary.<br />
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Designed to be read over a period of 40 days, <em>The Purpose Driven Life</em> starts off by putting the reader in a reflective mode. Is it not worth 40 days of your life to find the purpose God has for you? Warren mentions several significant 40 day periods mentioned in the Bible (Noah and the rain, Moses on Mount Sinai, David and Goliath, and the transformation of the city of Nineveh), and encourages the reader to take this book a chapter at a time. What is there to be said that has not already been said over the past 10 years? The expanded edition includes video introductions to each of the 42 chapters by author Rick Warren, audio lessons at the end of each chapter that offer more than 30 hours of additional teaching by Rick Warren, two <em>new</em> chapters that cover the most common barriers to living a purpose driven life, and access to an online community offering discussions, feedback, and support. <br />
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This book has the potential to change your life - if you absorb its content and take it in the context in which it was written. You have to WANT a change to happen, and you have to be willing to accept that change. Approaching the possibility of change with an open heart, an open mind, and faith in Christ to lead you in the direction that He would have you go will lead you down paths you may have never considered possible. Are you willing to lead a purpose driven life? <br />
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If you took the challenge at any time during the past ten years, how do you feel about that challenge today? Are you willing to revisit the challenge? Transform your life - live with purpose. <br />
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